As creative founders, we pour most of our energy into creating products and projects, and running our businesses, but one area we neglect is investing in self-development and self-growth. As a result, from time to time some of us may suffer from the imposer syndrome and self-doubt, which is stopping us from making our dreams a reality.
So, here are 7 motivational reminders which hopefully will help you in your own journey:
Take responsibility for your own life
This is the beginning of self-esteem. Although stuff happens, ultimately you are responsible for your actions. When we deeply and utterly understand that to be true, life takes on a whole new meaning. Whatever has happened until the past moment is gone. This present moment is again yours. And you have the power to do whatever you want with it.
Have a big vision and keep your goals aligned with your vision
Make sure to know what kind of person you want to be and what kind of job/business/life you would like to lead. Then shape your short-term goals so it is moving you in that direction (or at least not away from it).
Remember that death makes life real
Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart. Death can come at any moment, to any of us. We don’t have forever to be who we are. In fact, we owe it to ourselves and those we love to be truly alive and authentic in each moment. It is the only legacy we can be proud to leave behind.
Don’t worry too much about making mistakes
It is better to have tried and failed than to not have tried at all. Think and analyse your decisions carefully, but once you feel reasonably sure you have made a good choice, just trust yourself. Be bold and go forth into the wilderness. Whatever happens, you will have gained an experience from it that only the courageous can boast of.
Know your strengths
You are unique. There is only one you in this entire universe. No one has exactly your strange and magical mix of genes and experience. Learn what makes you tick. And keep building on that. You will make wonderful things happen.
Be kind to yourself
We all mess up once in a while. When it happens and you finally catch on, drop your ego, admit your mistake fully, and make amends. Learn from it so you don’t repeat that same lesson again. Then forgive yourself and move on. Life is hard and we are not made to be perfect.
Don’t forget to laugh
It has got me through many a sticky situation. And created hours of pure fun. Include as much good humour in your day as legally possible. And that’s a doctor’s order.
“You are special and there is a reason you are on this earth. No matter what your situation is, there is something you can do today to move toward your true self.” Sarah Jones
Written by Sarah Jones, the UK’s leading holistic expert
First published in ESTILA Bookazine Vol 5/2017
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